Yesterday, I got to spend an hour doing “nothing” with a 4-year-old and a 2-year-old. We found a weedy, empty lot, and we went exploring. The children pulled and picked, poked and prodded, stomped and stepped, looked and listened. Their joy and contentment was viral, and it quickly infected me, too.
When it was time to leave, we didn’t want to go! The children had been creating magic out of “nothing” for an hour, and none of us wanted to break that spell. When we got back into the car, we all agreed that we felt refreshed, even though it was late in the afternoon, and NONE of us had gotten our nap that day.
This magical hour might not have happened. The kids’ nanny had first intended to bring a video for them to watch when she was planning for this expected wait-time while she had a doctor’s appointment. But then, wise young woman that she is (my daughter, Audra!), she realized that the doctor’s office had some empty space next door, and suggested that maybe I could take them for a walk outside while she was seeing the doctor. Think about the contrast: turning our brains off for an hour while watching a video vs. the brain stimulation of fresh air and pretend play. If we’d gone the video-route, I’m certain that we would have ended up with two cranky, wired kids instead of the refreshed, enthusiastic, yet calm kids we buckled into the car after this hour of quality outdoor play.

Yesterday's experience reminded me of a post about toys, which I wrote for my blog a year ago:
And my thoughts about the benefits of quality play were reinforced this week by these posts from other sources:
(It almost sounds like the people who wrote these articles had been reading my blog, or attending Explorer PEC’s!)
In addition, you might want to check out our local “Wild Zone” group:
http://www.wild-zone.net/www.wild-zone.net/New_Social_Space.html
http://www.wild-zone.net/www.wild-zone.net/New_Social_Space.html